Dating can seem intimidating for the man or woman who’s been out of the loop for a while. But that’s no reason for holding back from giving it a try. Dating offers a great opportunity to get out of your routine, meet new friends and even start a relationship with someone new. The following tips can help you have a smoother re-entry into the dating scene.
Brush Up on Your Social Skills
Dating can be awkward if you’re unprepared in your social skills. If you’ve not dated for a while, you may want to brush up on your social skills before taking the plunge. Accept invitations for family gatherings or social occasions from friends to give you a chance to meet new people in a group setting. This gives you opportunities to practice socializing with others. Practice simple tasks such as introducing yourself, listening to others and carrying a conversation to boost your confidence for a personal date later on.
Put time into Your Appearance
Take time to look your best before a date. The old adage that “man looks on outward appearance” is never truer than when on a first date. A little primping never hurt anyone and shows you want to make a good impression on your date. A person’s appearance reveals much about his character and personality. Just be sure to dress for the occasion, wearing clothes you’re comfortable in and that reflect your personal taste and preference.
Show Genuine Interest in Your Partner
Dating is a two-way street when it comes to getting to know each other. Don’t monopolize the conversation, no matter how “entertaining” you think you may be. At the same time, don’t claim up and expect your partner to carry the evening on his or her own. Show genuine interest in getting to know your date by inquiring about his or her likes and dislikes, values and opinions. This gives you a chance to see if they are compatible with your own. Even if you differ on various topics, you can still respect each other’s opinions and enjoy each other’s company.
Don’t Pretend to Be What You’re Not
Pretense can destroy a relationship before it ever gets started. Just be yourself and let others see you for what you are. There’s no point pretending to be what you’re not. Sooner or later your dishonesty will be uncovered, leaving you with a huge mess to clean up. If your date can’t accept you for what you are, try again with someone new with whom you have more in common.
Even if your first few dates don’t work out the way you’d like, keep trying. Dating gives you a chance to break out of your routine, meet new friends and enjoy the companionship of others.
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